As I grew older I realized that hurting people through criticism was a form of failure … One hurt them for things one hadn't done oneself.
随着年纪的增长，我发现用批评去伤害他人本身就是一种失败……一个人常因为自己也没能完成的事去伤害别人。

——Cyril Connolly
——西里尔·康诺利